The Closer I get to you......

Focus Face-to-Face
When making love with your partner, try it with you on top. When he’s inside you, both of you should try to lie perfectly, absolutely still, and don’t speak. Take in his scent, the heat of his body, and what you’re feeling, inside and out. Block out any noises or distractions, and focus only on the two of you. This will really connect you and your partner!

Time is of the Essence......

Why limit your experiences to standard fare when there's a whole sensual smorgasbord to sample? Mixing up your sex routine brings mystery and adventure to your love life, two qualities that keep things fresh between the sheets.
TAKE-YOUR-SWEET-TIME SEX

When you have the gift of time, languishing in supersensory, soulful lovemaking can be a rhapsodic revelation...and a relationship booster. With sensual sex, it's not all about where you and your guy are going but the process that gets you there. "When you slow down and attempt to keep your orgasm at bay, you're more focused on exploring every inch of each other's bodies and savoring your time together," says Deb Levine, author of The Joy of Cybersex.

The emotional benefits are long-lasting too. "Knowing that he cares enough to lavish his love on you for hours, and that you're his number one priority, builds confidence and security," says Levine. "Plus, your bond in general will feel more intimate because you've made the bedroom a place for enjoying each other, not just sexual sensations."

Sex for FUN!!!!

Fascinating Fact: Humans aren’t the only creatures to have sex for fun.

Humans aren’t the only members of the animal kingdom that have sex just for fun. Dolphins and Bonobo chimps have also been observed engaging in sexual activity, when they are not in their natural reproductive cycles. With the exception of a pair of Cohan gorillas observed doing so, bonobos are the only non-human animal to have been observed engaging in all of the following sexual activities: face-to-face genital sex, tongue kissing, and oral sex. When Bonobos come upon a new food source or feeding ground, the increased excitement will usually lead to communal sexual activity, presumably decreasing tension and allowing for peaceful feeding. Interestingly, Bonobo chimps also play and experience joy like humans.

Not tonight my head hurts.....No longer a valid reason anymore.....Now what will we say??

Next time your significant other refuses your advances by claiming to have a headache, remember this fact: the sex act can help to cure a headache. Sex causes the body to release endorphins which naturally reduce the pain of a headache.